Stuff Guys Need To Learn When It Comes To Girls

Most gentlemen aren’t very skilled when it comes to the ways of a women. And although I don’t claim to be a relationship expert, I do have a few things I think all men need to work on.

Here is some stuff guys need to learn when it comes to girls:

1. We need to learn how to talk to you.

– Let’s face it, us guys don’t know how to talk to women. It’s not that we are idiots, but that sometimes it’s hard for us to communicate the way a woman needs. The key in learning how to talk to a girl is first listening to her. When we fail to listen, we will fail in our attempt to talk in a way that shows sincerity.

2. We need to learn how to act when we are around you.

– Sometimes we forget to turn off “guy mode.” It’s not that “guy mode” is wrong, but that it doesn’t necessarily translate well when we are with the ladies. We as men must learn how to act around women, their friends, and their family. We must learn to be kind, gentle, and engage in actions that reflect biblical direction.

3. We need to learn how to respect & honor you.

– Honor and respect are huge aspects of any relationship. Learning to honor and respect a girl is one of the major issues in today’s society and culture. Men must learn how to treat girls in a way that reflects the way Jesus loved his Church. We are called to reflect purity, honor, and respect that goes beyond limits.

4. We need to learn how to comfort you.

– Us guys like to fix stuff. And although we might be very good at it, that’s not always the answer a girl needs when she is feeling down or hurt. Sometimes, the simple act of wrapping our arms around her and praying will bring her the comfort and joy she needs to move on. Don’t think you need to fix everything. Sometimes girls just need someone who is willing to listen and be heard.

5. We need to learn how to encourage you.

– Encouragement is key. There are so many reasons for girls to feel insecure in today’s world. And although most of these reasons are false, it doesn’t mean they don’t affect girls in a mighty way. We as guys must learn how to encourage and support women in a way that lifts them up to see their worth in Christ.

– Jarrid Wilson


What else do guys need to learn about girls? Leave a comment below!

Published by Jarrid Wilson

Husband, Father, Pastor at Harvest Christian Fellowship & Author of a few books.

43 comments on “Stuff Guys Need To Learn When It Comes To Girls”

  1. That one about guys being good at fixing things reminds me of an episode of Criminal Minds. Garcia confides in Derek and he does something to offend her, so Emily tells him, “When a woman tells a man about her feelings, she doesn’t want him to fix her. She wants him to shut up and listen.” Very true 99% of the time. xD

  2. we need to be able to speak without being shut down and we need to be loved in endless ways…if we feel like we are being listened to and if we know that we are thought about and we are shown a lot of love and patience then you will have us eating out of your hand. We as women then will find it easy to respect and admire you, and surrender to your arms the way you need us to.

  3. Don’t stifle a woman’s dreams. We are made to hope and dream even if that dream is a future with you that may scare you. Relax and let her dream. It does not always mean she needs you to fulfil the dream right away. If you try and stop, discourage or discredit her you destroy her hope and eventually you destroy the woman you love.

    1. question, like what kinds of dreams, off the top of your head, would you want to be full filled? I seen some from dating that the young lady had a dream of wanting to hold hands and cuddle up on a couch kind of thing and yes I discourage it as well as discredit that as well because that was not the smart move. but if it is something with having a number of kids or going to a place then shoot why not. But if it comes to changing a man of who he is then I advise you not to try full-filling that dream because it will end up he will close his doors and not let you in. Word of wise Men don’t like to be something they are not what God did not make them to be.

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