Ladies, this one is for you.
For all of you are who are single, engaged, dating, or even considering dating. I have one question for you
What does your ideal guy look like?
1) Is he Tall?
2) Is he Funny?
3) Is he Handsome?
4) Is he Motivated?
5) Is he Athletic?
All these searchable qualities are great. But when it really comes down to it, will any of these qualities withstand the length of time? Will any of these qualities give your relationship depth or meaning? And will any of these qualities help you build a foundation that can withstand through all?
I really want you to stop and think about your life. I want you to think about your future. And I want you to think about your heart.
Now don’t get me wrong. I am not saying I have all the answers, or that I can even begin to understand the mind of a women, because I can’t. But what I do know, is that you are my sisters in Christ, uniquely beautiful in wonderful ways. And I would not be able to call myself a a true follower of Christ if I did not take the time to protect and look out for you.
I am not saying that I am”Mr. Perfect”, or haven’t made my own selfish mistakes, because I have. But what I do know is that you deserve more than what “they” say, because your life was formed by “His” hands.
1) You can’t put your trust in a man, until he can first put his trust in God.
2) A real man opens more than the door. He opens his bible.
3) A real man will go to church with you.
When it comes down to it, you are a princess of the King, and to be treated any other way is NOT what God intended for you.
The last time I checked, you weren’t just an interest of the King, but a Princess of the King. And you deserve a prince.
Keep your eyes on HIM.
- Jarrid Wilson
Months of to-ing and fro-ing with my husband, trying to explain how I wish to be treated. Showed him this post just now and he finally clicked. He even agreed to come to church with me on Sunday! :D I am so so stoked for him to hear the word of God and hope it will touch his heart!
Amen! I pray that this will continue for you :)
thank you so much !
Thank you Jarrid for reminding us(girls) this truth!
Thanks Jarrid! Your words always make me stop and think. Great reminder and encouragement! (:
Can I just say that number three, “a real man goes to church with you” is something I disagree with? I agree with most of this post, that things like his faith in God are more important to your relationship than what he looks like or whether he’s athletic. I just disagree with number three because I once got my crush to go to church with me, and he turned out to be the most outspoken atheist I know. It left me heartbroken. Anyone can go to church, it doesn’t make them a woman or man of God. I really agree with the first one though, putting our trust in God is the most important thing, with everything, not just dating. Loved this post Jarrid!
Paige,
What I think he was leaning towards was that the man should already be going to church and following Christ. Not just a man who “agrees” to go to church with you.
So good!!! Amen amen amen! Thanks for the reminder :)
Amen! To answer your question Jarrid. Mine reflects the heart of Jesus! When I see it I’ll know its him. Because I too desire to reflect the heart of Christ.
Also, A real man reflects the heart and love of Jesus Christ.
Such a great insight as always. Every girl needs to hear and be reminded of this. All you youngins, do not settle for just any guy… If you feel pressured to date just to date, it’s not worth it and may end in an unwanted circumstance. It may not be your time yet. Build your relationship with Christ first, and He will take care of the rest. Be yourself. Through Christ, you will become the One the One you’re looking for will be looking for. A man whose faith is in Christ is a man worth waiting for.
“A good woman is hard to find and worth far more than diamonds.”
(Proverbs 31:10)
Thank you for your encouraging words, Christine :) it’s always nice to receive such needed words from my sisters in Christ.
Amen!
Thank you for this post! I have recently begun on a journey to purposely seek God in what my heart truly needs in a Godly Man. Your words are always so encouraging!
Apologise, but I have just failed my previous relationship. He opens his bible, he trusts Jesus, he is faithful, he goes to the same church with me. He serves God through his talent. But… he is still an uncommitted guy and we had to come to and end. However, thanking you for this reminder.
Thank you for this post. :)
This post is so well written. Just aint so easy sometimes…You find the perfect man, he makes you happy, is good at everything, ambitious,hardworking,stable,kind and forgiving. But just doesnt bother with “the whole church thing”. I guess you can only try to persuade/change people for so long hey… Good God-fearing men are hard to come by nowadays.
And on that note….#Jarrid marry me! lol, I would probably lock you up inside the house forever, because its hard finding “a good match”,and when you do find them, I suppose theres a bit of a fear that they may not always be yours.
#Just joking about the whole kidnapping you/locking you in the house idea,hahaha. Maybe you could just clone yourself and fly the clone to me. Thank you in advance :)
God Bless you everyday of your life, and heartfelt appreciation on your inspirational posts!
Wonderful news!
I read a book “praying for your future husband” it changed me a great deal. And reading this post, i am reminded of the things that matter the most. God has to be at the Center as I search, as i wait and also when he comes.
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Thank you Jason!:)