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Ignoring Your Pain Will Only Hurt You In The Long Run

Ignoring Your Pain Will Only Hurt You In The Long Run

Ignoring Your Pain Will Only Hurt You In The Long Run

Pain can come packaged in many different ways. While one can encounter this burden through the loss of a loved one, another could have lost a job or even found out that they’re battling a life-threatening sickness. Regardless of how; pain is very, very real. Pain is not something we can avoid in life no matter how hard we really try. It’s a vital part of our human existence, and if treated correctly, will harvest much wisdom and knowledge.

I’ve heard the phrase “Just push through the pain” more times that I can count in my lifetime. And what seems like an encouraging an inspirational memo for those going through a tough time, any doctor will tell you that this is simply not a good idea. Why? Because ignoring the pain you have now can possibly cause further damage in the future. It’s important to fix what is broken.  Ignoring the hard parts of life will only make life more difficult.

Pushing through the pain is just as bad as ignoring it. You must acknowledge your pain in order to find healing and redemption. If you’re struggling with depression and anxiety, then maybe it’s time to fully admit that you’re struggling so that you can find help. If you’re fearful of what the future has in store for you, then maybe it’s time express that fear to a friend or loved one so they can better understand what you’re going through. If your heart is hurting and you’ve yet to open up about the pain, then maybe it’s time to drop your guard and start letting people see your brokenness. People can’t help you if they don’t know you need it.

Regardless of what you are going through in life, you must choose to look your pain in the face and make a conscious decision to fight, not flee. Pain can sometimes be a tricky subject to deal with, but it’s better to deal with it rather than never attempt at all.

There were plenty of times in my life where I ignored what I was going through because I thought I didn’t have enough time, or that my pain wasn’t that big of deal in the grand scheme of things. I couldn’t have been more wrong about my assumptions of how to deal with pain, and it was until I found myself googling painless ways to commit suicide that I realize how badly “pushing through the pain” had truly affected my life. I never one thought to reach out to people because I was afraid of what others may think. I failed to realize that we’re all broken in some way or another and that not reaching to anybody quickly put me in a corner of loneliness and despair.

The moment I found hope was a moment I’ll never forget. It was a moment where I chose to accept the reality that I was hurting and open myself to the comfort found in the truth of God and actions of those around me. I found people who related to my struggles and found themselves just as broken as I had felt. It was a rejuvenating experience to admit my pain, to really own it instead of trying to ignore. I learned throughout my life that time and time again, pushing through the pain will only make things worse.

—Jarrid Wilson


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17 Comments

  • Alison October 31, 2016 at 6:33 AM

    Jarrid I really appreciate your honesty about this depression. Are you considering writing a book about this topic?

  • Cheyenne May 4, 2016 at 10:05 PM

    Thank you, I needed this. It finally feels like someone understands, and you gave practical, helpful advice on how to overcome it. Thank you so much for all you do! you’re such a blessing, appreciate you alot!

  • Al April 29, 2016 at 10:43 PM

    I had been trying to ignore my cause for pain for the past 15 years.. Even after finally confronting the person, nothing seems to change. The reason is so embarrassing, I can’t even tell close friends..Prayer is my only sustainer. Any thoughts?

  • Jay Mason April 29, 2016 at 4:44 PM

    I think “Nikkormat” was autocorrect for “generic.” Sorry.😱

  • Lethabo April 27, 2016 at 11:06 PM

    Thank you for this profound block.i grew up with the thought that handling myself very well(hiding my pains) is a sign of strongness BUT that made me to be a very secretive person.i wouldnt share my pains no matter what and at the end of the day i will be hurting inside while people around me see this beautiful bubbling person.this block taught me so much and i know that opening up doesnt really say you are weak but it shows that you are strong enough to say if you are feeeling uncomfortable and that you need help. May God continue to use you mightily to remain realevant to the world

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