23 Qualities Of A Woman Worth Dating

Searching for “the one” can be a daunting task. And while there may be hundreds of qualities to look for in a woman, my wife and I have come up with 23 that I believe every man should seek after. This post is quite similar to the previous one, but don’t let that keep you from digesting its truth. Don’t tread lightly when it comes to the idea of a relationship. You can be as picky as you want, and I discourage you from ever just settling. Everyone is looking for something different, but I hope these 23 qualities will help you on your journey, keep you from dating the wrong people, and encourage you to not ever sell yourself short. God didn’t create you to settle.

1. She loves God.

2. She is supportive.

3. She is goal oriented.

4. She is kind.

5. She encourages you.

6. She is honest.

7. She respects her parents.

8. She respects her/your purity.

9. She is modest.

10. She puts God first.

11. She is friendly.

12. She laughs at your jokes.

13. She is someone you are attracted to.

14. She is always willing to lend a helping hand.

15. She will pray for you/with you.

16. She is a hard worker.

17. She is responsible.

18. She doesn’t gossip.

19. She doesn’t make hasty decisions.

20. She doesn’t have a foul mouth.

21. She has good manners.

22. She is appreciative of the things you do for her.

23. She is always thinking on the bright side.

There is a high chance you will not be able to find a woman who reaches each of these qualities perfectly, but I’m sure you get the point I am trying to make. There is a perfect woman out there for you, so I pray you take the time needed before moving into any type of relationship. Dont’ settle. I’m not a relationship expert, but I’d like to think these qualities are pretty informative for anyone looking to have one that lasts. Make sure to check out this wonderful article from my dear friend Dale Partridge on 4 Signs Of A Girl Worth Marrying.

—Jarrid Wilson


Also read: 23 Qualities Of A Guy Worth Dating

What are your thoughts? Leave a comment below.


Published by Jarrid Wilson

Husband, Father, Pastor at Harvest Christian Fellowship & Author of a few books.

55 comments on “23 Qualities Of A Woman Worth Dating”

  1. Thanks, Jarrid. I’m a youth pastor. This has been a great resource for me with my students. Love this blog and the other (Qualities of a Guy Worth Dating). Great resource. Did notice that #15 is a little different. In other blog, the guy is to pray for the girlfriend. In this, the girl is to pray with (?) the boyfriend. Think praying for each other is important. Praying with each other begins to become emotionally intimate. Know it’s semantics, but thought I would share. Appreciate the countless ways the Lord is using you for Him and His kingdom.

  2. The only one I disagree with is the last: “She is always looking on the bright side.” The Bible says to ‘mourn with those who mourn’. Telling someone whose dad just died, “Well, look on the bright side,” is just annoying and rude. It is one thing to have the joy of the Lord at all times, but to always fine the bright side, is to say to others that you are a fake and plaster on a smile. There is no such thing as every situation having a bright side to look on. I love your posts! They are so encouraging.

      1. I’m with both of y’all. Sensitivity is so important but a positive can-do attitude makes life so much sweeter, especially when you have children. Being with someone who’s very negative can be very exhausting I think

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